Spices up your love life .....!!

Trust, understanding, respect and bonding, what else couples can ask for in a healthy relationship to form the foundation for a lasting union.

But little do the couples know that even the most wonderful relationship can go for a toss if love starts fading away. In today's modern times with a hectic workflow to maintain, couples often take each other for granted. And very often, they fail to realise the importance of the little things in a relationship that add the much needed zing in their otherwise boring and dull relationship.

It could be something as simple as saying 'I love you' or wooing your mate with a surprise gift – all that matters is the urge to show that you care and love. These small love gestures might not seem too precious in a relationship, but they can leave your partner craving for more.

Relationship counselor Dr. Geetu Bhardwaj explains, "In every relationship, it's important to maintain a healthy bond. If the couple starts assuming that the other partner knows about your feelings, then there would be very little conversation and sharing of feelings. In such situations, a vacuum starts building and this adversely affects the relationship in the long-run. So it's suggested that small expressions of love should be conveyed every now and then to improve the quality of a relationship. "

So the next time boredom starts taking away the fun from your love paradise, try these precious gestures, which can surely bring back the passion like never before...

1. Say that you love : Loving someone is a pleasant feeling, but what's more important is to tell them that you love them. Saying 'I love you' is the best way to connect to your partner and share what you feel for each other.

Love-o-meter : Marriage and relationship counsellor Dr. Medha Sharma says, "Most of the times, the frequency of saying 'I love you' drastically drops as the relationship graduates to another level. So to revive the missing love, couples must seek help from these three words. Women, in general, are keener to say, 'I love you' much too often and in turn they expect the same from their male partners too."

2. Plan a sex picnic : Physical intimacy is probably one of the best ways to bond with your partner. But when it's about recharging the love lull, couples should think out-of-the-box. Forget the bedroom boredom and move out to an exotic spot with your partner.

Love-o-meter : Relationship counsellor, Dr. Amita Mishra opines, "Planning a romantic holiday with your lover can surely be a good idea that will allow you to spend quality time together, which might be tough otherwise. Make sure that the vacation is only intended towards comforting each other and there are lots of pleasure moments, sans any household tensions and office worries."

3.. Exchange romantic gifts : While in an affair, you might have gone crazy buying almost all sorts of gifts for your mate. But as it transforms into a long term relationship, these gifts lose their importance. So renewing the habit of exchanging gifts frequently is a sure shot way to make your partner feel loved.

Love-o-meter : "It's not about being materialistic in a relationship, but gifts are an expression of love. A flower, a card, a soft toy, a dress or anything else, whatever you choose for your beloved carries a message which is conveyed through that gift. Thus, exchanging gifts is a great way to make each other feel special," feels Dr. Geetu.

4. Arrange for surprise dinners : Endless luncheons, dinners, parties and night outs are often the routine in the first few months of a relationship. But gradually, it's just home sweet home and cooking in the kitchen which take over. Going out for a surprise dinner is indeed a superb way to woo your partner and bring back the love spark.

Love-o-meter : "A surprise candlelit dinner has always been a hot pick when it comes to arranging something special for your better half. You can plan something really lavish like a special menu and instrumental music, of course, of your partner's choice. Also, act a bit naughty with each other and enjoy each moment like there's no tomorrow," suggests Dr. Amita.

5. Know your partner better : You would often think that you share a great level of understanding and trust with your partner, but there's always more to a couple's chemistry. Couples pay less heed to indulging in intimate conversations with each other and hence they don't know what's exactly going in their partner's life. If you feel that the love bond is getting weaker, take some time out and sit with your mate just to hear them out and bare their heart in front of you.

Love-o-meter : "Initiating a conversation with your partner can really bring you close to them all over again. It gives them a reassurance that you care for them and the comfort zone created henceforth is a sustaining factor in a relationship. Casual or romantic talks often act as catalyst in restoring lost love in your relationship, " asserts Dr. Medha.

Sex Advice: Guy having queries about Penis size and Circumcision

Questions. I am 18 years old and have the following queries. 1) Where can I get circumcised and what is the approximate cost? 2) My penis, when not erect, is smaller than my thumb. Is their any way to make it like that of porn stars? 3) The skin of my penis is too black compared to the skin around. Will it affect me later?

Answers.
1) First of all it is to be decided whether you need a circumcision. This could be by your family physician if required. If your foreskin does not slip back and forth over the head, he will refer you to a surgeon. The expense will be different with different doctors. If necessary I can refer you to a doctor who charges reasonably.

2) At rest the size is the size you describe. What is important is the size at erection.

3) It will not matter.

HumanDigest:- Erotic story of the day

I removed her petticoat up to waist she was wearing yellow panty. She protested but I removed her panty. Her pussy was full of hairs.I widened her legs.Her pussy was ripe full size black in color. I put my hand on it.It was soft, Plump just like bread. I rubbed it thoroughly than parted her pussy lips.It was pink inside, clitoris was small, inner labia was thin but outer lips were thick. Her pussy hole was not gaping.I put my middle finger in her hole and started to rub clitoris with thumb. Her pussy was wet due to previous fucking feeling slippery but it was tight may be because she didn't gave birth. She contacted my eyes and understood, what was in my mind. At least she has been fucked with my friends before my turn. she put her hand on my hand and pressed. She started to moan.

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Sex Advice: 18-year-old having queries on masturbation and nightfall

Questions: I am 18 years old and have the following queries. 1) Is semen produced only after masturbation or also during intercourse? 2) Till what point should one’s foreskin comfortably slip back? Mine does until a mushroom-like structure appears on the penis. Is that ok? 3) I have heard that the foreskin must be pulled back before one wears a condom. Why is that? 4) My voice has broken and I have pubic hair, but my facial hair growth is very slow. Is that a problem? 5) I have been experiencing a lot of erotic dreams. On waking up, I find a wet patch on my underwear. Is this semen or urine? 6) Sometimes my urine flow is not unidirectional, but it comes out in different directions and wets my pants. What can I do?

Answers
: 1) Semen is produced in the testes 24 hours a day, all 365 days in a year. Therefore excess semen is thrown out as nightfall. 2) The foreskin slips back up to the base of the head as you have described. At the lower part, it has an attachment. You are okay. Clean the area daily after slipping back the foreskin. 3) It is done because otherwise, there’s a tendency for it to slip off. 4) Why be in a hurry? Nature has its own time. 5) It is semen. 6) The urine can be controlled by using your hand to direct its flow.

HumanDigest:- Erotic story of the day

She guided my right foot that was inside her Saree, to her panty covered pubis. Her panty was so bloody wet with her hot juices that I just couldn’t believe that it was possible. She held my foot and started rubbing her pubis with it. Up and down, sideways, in circular motion, and what not. My foot became wet and slippery with her juices. Then she guided my toes inside her panty from the sides. The warm skin gave me a totally different sensation now. There was some pubic hair present and the folds of her vagina were just so interesting to feel with my toes, specially the big toe. My left foot was still busy playing with her soft and hard boobs and I could make out the erect tits by now, and the right one was busy enjoying wet softness of her folded vaginal entry. My hand continued to play with my cock.

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Question। What is the definition of a menstrual period?

Answer. A bloody waste of fucking time.

Sex Advice: Trying for third child but not succeeding

Question. I am 43 years old and my wife is 34. We have two girls, aged 11 and five respectively. We have been trying for a third child for the last three months, but haven’t succeeded. Do we need to get ourselves tested? Are there any medications available that can help us? Kindly guide us.

Answer
. Visit your gynaecologist and discuss the issue. Increase your intercourse frequency to thrice a week from the eighth day of her period cycle counting from the first day. Have your sperm count checked and correct your lifestyle, if needed.

HumanDigest:- Erotic story of the day

I slowly pushed my butts up and could feel the full erection. i again pulled myself down. There was a brief pause in massage and this time when Rahuls hands moved down he slowly pulled my gown further down.He continued with his massage and slowly he was massaging my thighs also. i was almost naked but the pleasure of massage and erotic feeling was so immense that i did’nt resist. Then he started his movement from my toes and as gradually moved up and up. As he reached my hands i instinctively raised my butts and found a rod poking me. The very thought that Rahul is also naked made me shudder. This time when i lowered my butts he lowered himself on me and his full hot body was all over me. He smelled my necks lying over me and gently kissed me.

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Question: What has one hundred balls and screws old ladies?

Answer: Bingo

Sex Advice: Cheeks look pale and hollow after masturbation

Question. I am a 19-year-old man and I masturbate regularly. Every time I masturbate, I lose some of my charm afterwards. My cheeks look pale and hollow. My body is otherwise healthy and muscular. Does this happen to everyone? I’ve noticed that porn stars manage to maintain their charm. Please help.

Answer
. During sexual excitement the blood flows faster and the blood pressure as also the pulse rate rises. Therefore the face tends to get flushed. However this phenomenon comes to end when your body comes back to its normal state and therefore you may wrongly think your face is paler. However get your RBC and hemoglobin checked.

HumanDigest:- Erotic story of the day

I first started to finger her real hard as we moved to the shower and when she was almost there I shoved in my penis real hard and kept on it at a good speed she was up against the wall. The wall was cold and we were partly in the water and some cool air hitting our bodies as well. With the up thrust I guess I was hitting her right and she held me real tight, I could feel her nails hurting me on my back. It went on for few minutes, by now the water started to get colder as the geyser was running out of hot water, her nipples were real hard and though I wanted to suck on them I was concentrating on the ramming that I was giving, she was encouraging to push harder and faster as she reached her orgasm, I asked her to keep rubbing herself as well, It was only moments after that even I exploded though this time round the quantity was not much.